Some may think I'm overreacting or petty. But ask yourselves: would you go this far to use one's secret merely to test a guy's sincerity?
She called me her best friend and yet she spilt my secret to a guy to test his sincerity towards me. She said she was looking out for me. But is this an act of "looking out for me" whilst telling him my secret without my consent?
Secret means it's to be kept and not used as an excuse to test anyone's sincerity. She could have asked for my permission or simply used something else (better) to test him. Why a secret? Obviously, she doesn't know the true meaning of the word SECRET.
And silly me, thinking that the secret is between me and her. Last night, on msn she told me that she had told (the) secret to another girl friend of ours (awhile back, again without my consent). I couldn't believe it when she said this to me on msn:
Don't think only you have the privilege to tell someone.
Valerie said:
you still dare to say this! it's my secret, of cos i have the privilege to tell MY SECRET.
This so-called friend had abused my trust towards her and destroyed our friendship. I can never befriend anyone who had betrayed me and still think that what she had done was RIGHT.
3 comments:
Val, read my blog.
And don't fall into the devil's trap. I know the rumours out there. And I don't care. Those rumours made me lose my gallery job w.e.f. this morning 13th Dec. God will cut off those wagging tongues.
And I did not betray you.Get this straight. It's been an exhausting 3 days for me since Thursday till now. I'm sick and tired of all these backstabbers as well.
Whoever you heard from that I added salt and pepper to the story? You should know by now I'm a very candid person. Right means right, wrong means wrong. Impartiality.
Hence the name God gave me when I opened a name book, 'Jennifer' meaning 'Fair Lady'. "She openeth her mouth with wisdom and in her tongue is the law of kindness" Proverbs 31:26
And my middle name, Eileen meaning 'Light'. "Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven." Matthew 5:16
Lastly, my surname as know in the west. Kohler. It's a combination of my Dad's surname and my mum's surname.
Jenn, you can say whatever you want. I have saved all our conversation from msn to smses. But all I'm asking was just a sincere apology. Instead, all you did was ended up threatening others for YOUR mistake, making people think it was not your fault and dragging others in like there's no end. Hence you left me with no choice but to use vulgar language. If all you did was just say sorry sincerely. All will fall into place nicely. Like what I had said in my blog, you could have used other ways to test him. Even if he shared his secrets with you, so what? Does that mean you can share MINE? Why not shared yours? You don't call this betrayal then maybe you should go amend the ENGLISH dictionary for the whole wide world.
I still kept reading this entry. Ha Ha Ha. Very cutelar both of you. He He :p
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